See, branding (errr) HUMOR into a specific category might be more appropriate, however humor according to it's definition is something designed to be FUNNY, APPEALING (pheromones?) & finding ways to cherish a situation that is deemed DUMB or whatever floats your boat. I think, when someone delivers their HUMOR, it is how the speaker delivers it & it is up to his listeners to do the *THINKING, THE ANALYZING* etc.
I love people with a good sense of humor (*wink wink*). Yet if your boundaries has been breached or if you feel uncomfortable, you got to let the person know that you are (erupting in HOT EMBERS of RAGE) because they are not mind readers (would criminal profiling help? lmfao).
Yes I am definitely a bored professional BUM.. My day was eventless as usual, cook breakfast, clean the pots & pans, exercise, get crunk, baby sit, tweetdecking (since it was a Sunday, no theKCshow bummer because that's where I get my humor)..
**P.S. if you can't stand the heat just leave the room and STOP MOPING & fretting**